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Alyssa Howard Core 😂😭 | Fav Highlights from “Waking Up At 5 AM To Be Productive” 🤣💗

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January 29, 2025

Key Takeaways

  • 1Showing up for yourself on your period is less about a perfect workout and more about keeping the promise that you will care for your body.
  • 2You can adjust the intensity of your routine on painful days without abandoning your goals or your identity.
  • 3Kind self talk during your cycle is a form of real self love, not fluff.
  • 4Your routine can shift into “soft mode” on hard days while still supporting your growth.
  • 5The mornings when you feel rough and still choose yourself quietly shape your confidence more than any highlight reel moment.

If you are searching for how to work out on your period or trying to figure out how to stick to your morning routine when your body feels like quitting, you are not alone. I filmed this on a day that started at 5 in the morning, when I was already ashy, cold, and low key regretting all my life choices. By the time the cramps hit, it was official. Shark Week had arrived.

I have been sharing my life and my routines online for over ten years, so you are not just getting a cute aesthetic morning. You are getting the real, “why am I awake right now” version.

This was not a magical boss-babe sunrise. This was me, freezing, in pain, and still choosing to show up for myself anyway.


Why Is It So Hard To Care About Your Goals When Your Body Hurts?

There is a special kind of chaos that happens when your period shows up on a day you planned to “be that girl.”

You go to bed all motivated. New routine, early alarm, gym bag ready. Then you wake up and suddenly you are:

  • Cold
  • Crampy
  • Bloated
  • Annoyed at the world
  • Wondering why your lotion gave up on you six hours ago

Everything in you wants to throw a fit, crawl back into bed, and pretend you never cared about a 5 a.m. workout in the first place. That was me. I literally stood there like, “Do I care today? I do, but I also really do not.”

That is the tension no one talks about enough. Most people show the glow up, not the “I just started my period and I might cry in the car” part.


Is It Okay To Work Out On Your Period?

Quick answer, from big sister mode: most of the time, yes. As long as you are not dealing with a medical issue, movement can actually help your cramps and mood.

The problem is not can you work out. The problem is you do not feel like a person who is capable of doing anything except curling into a ball.

Here is how I think about it on days like this:

  • I do not need to hit a personal record
  • I do not need to do the hardest workout of my life
  • I just need to prove to myself that I can still show up

Sometimes that looks like a full gym session. Sometimes it looks like a slow walk, stretching, or doing a very light version of whatever I had planned. You get to scale it to how your body feels.

The key is you keep that promise to yourself, even if you adjust it. That is where confidence comes from.


How Do You Stay Disciplined When Everything In You Wants To Tap Out?

On period days, discipline does not feel cute. It feels like arguing with yourself at 5 in the morning.

Here are a few things that help me stay grounded when my brain and body are fighting my routine:

1. Lower The Bar Without Dropping The Standard

There is a difference between quitting and adjusting.

If I planned an hour of heavy lifting, maybe I switch to:

  • Twenty minutes of light weights
  • Walking on an incline
  • A stretching session with music

I still showed up. I still honored the “I move my body” identity, I just did it in a way that respected how I felt.

2. Talk To Yourself Like Someone You Actually Love

On days like this, your self talk matters more than your workout plan.

You can say:

  • “You are so lazy, why can you not just handle this.”

Or you can say:

  • “You are in pain and you are still trying. That is something to be proud of.”

One of the fastest ways to shift your energy is to narrate what you are doing in a kind way. I do this all the time, even out loud. “You woke up early, you showed up for yourself, and you are doing your best with the body you have today.”

That is self love in real time.

3. Accept That The Aesthetic Might Not Match The Effort

I knew I looked a little off. I felt off. My outfit did not feel right. I was bloated, slightly confused, and fighting cramps.

We are used to seeing “perfect” gym fits and flat stomachs and smooth skin. So when you see yourself in real life, it is easy to think, “I should not even bother. I do not look like those girls.”

Here is the truth: no one at the gym has time to write a report on your outfit or your face. Most people are in their own world. The only person thinking about you that hard is you.

Your body deserves care even when it does not look how you want yet.


What If Your Period Completely Messes Up Your Routine?

There will be days where you really cannot go. The pain is too much, your energy is too low, or life is simply lifing on top of your cycle.

On those days, instead of quitting on yourself completely, shift the routine into “soft mode.” For example:

  • Light stretching in your room
  • A warm shower and skin care
  • Journaling how you feel
  • Cleaning a small part of your room or car so tomorrow feels easier

The goal is to keep your relationship with yourself strong. You want your brain to know, “Even on hard days, we do not abandon ourselves.”

Your routine is not only about productivity. It is about trust.


Giving Yourself Credit For The Days No One Sees

The internet loves to clap for finished results. New body, new car, new lifestyle. Cute.

The real growth happens on random mornings at 5 a.m. when you feel crusty, cold, and crampy, and you still decide to care about yourself.

You do not need to “perform” strength. You just need to keep choosing yourself in small ways that stack up over time. That is what shapes your future more than any perfect morning aesthetic.

So if you are reading this while hugging a heating pad, wondering if your goals still matter this week, they do. You still matter. Listen to your body, adjust what you need to adjust, then find one tiny way to show up for yourself today.

That might be a workout. It might be washing your face. It might be drinking some water and going back to bed with intention.

Whatever it is, let it be a choice that says, “I am on my own side, even on Shark Week.”

Full Transcript

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how am I already ashy at 5: in the morning like what wait that's kind of crazy cuz I literally put on lotion 6 hours ago another point to this video another reason I'm waking up so early another reason for this is is not only okay what huh show jeez that's really how I'm feeling right now okay it's cold like I want to like I want to throw a fit it's freaking cold anyway do I care do I care is the question kind of I look like I've decided I don't care oh no y'all I'm getting period cramps I would...

This transcript is provided for accessibility and reference. Content from "Alyssa Howard Core 😂😭 | Fav Highlights from “Waking Up At 5 AM To Be Productive” 🤣💗" by Alyssa Howard.

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